Can I just start my day by having a self evaluation, self assessment and self realization of random things. I’ve been so bothered by work, money, life, future and a bit of everything (yes! Everything let’s include love of course! :D)
Later this week I’ll be sharing those
Thanks Bro.Bo for the ebook it enlightens me :)touching your heart,
Yes the title was inspired my the local movie btw, were you guys able to watched it?! You must!! Hurry!! you will get kilig and believe on falling love again :)
Anyways, How can I start this? My point of having this version 2.0 blog is to voice out freely what I have had experienced, felt and wondered for working a few days on this brave step I am into.
One of the perks of blogging is you can learn from real people who has enough to say than those celebrities who is always on the headline.
P.S: For better understanding read this first Starting All Over :)
Let me have it on bullet form as if I was about to give identification answers on your summer examination kidding :D I was just trying to tell you that this entry may be beneficial as you go on, on reading.
Lesson 2.1: “Chances are rare but take it with all your heart”
- I have said enough that I came to my limits of loving my position as an MA for a jewelry brand and It’s time for me to take it to the next level where I can measure my capabilities. With or without a new job to take in I am resigning and before that happens “a chance” was given to me to get a job from the company I have always aimed for since I have graduated from school I can still remember the question of my interviewer of how can I be competitive with tall girls and that is an odd question for me to answer as a fresh graduate I am not witty enough then :) and I knew my answers would not put me to that job. Now that I am in I was experiencing this feeling and ask myself “Do I really belong to this company?” I knoowww i was just working for few days from now and that is exactly my point if I can no longer feel at ease on the start what do you expect me to feel when days getting longer? :( the answer came to me when my sister told me to rest before starting a new job. “Rest” is the answer to that feeling it is not because I do not belong to the company but it is more of not giving myself enough time to prepare and have myself get more interested of what my job will entails me. So to those who are reading this giving yourself a moment of break is OKAY to embrace the chance you are into wholly.
Lesson 2.2: ”You will thank them one day on the way how they treated you”
-I am still on adjusting period on how can I social mix myself on a whole new set of different individuals and get rid of my comfort friends. There are some individuals who would not be nice on you at first and it is normal. I kinda find it unfair though that first impression will be the basis of how they will treat you but the surprise underneath this reality is that from there you can prove them either they are right or you will win because they are wrong. Some may belittled you, you may be underestimated or worst used by unprofessional and personal stakes for the company everything that comes with it. This people will hit your weakness but instead for falling into this turn it into another phase of believing you can be valuable and better than what they thought you are.
Lesson 2.3: ”Being scared is normal”
- Let’s have it reciprocal. I am speaking of fear of being YOU! Not because you are in a new place you will intended to conceal your true being. Hey! it’s okay to be judged, be hated, be treated as hell who does not been on that state?? If there is one then that individual is truly hiding his true self. I am pretty sure we’re all going to be there and been there at once. So do not let that scared part of your feeling pull you away from being your amazing self. God create people in his image and likeness how can that not be an amazing truth about human? God loves you! <3
Lesson 2.4: ”God grant me the serenity to accept the things that I cannot change the courage to change the things that I can and the wisdom to see the difference”
-This will simply explains the 3rd learning that “it is what it is”. There are things that you cannot change but needs acceptance and there are things that YES you can change but for the better not to get it to its worst. You will also learn God’s given gift of limits. Working requires a lot of your time, knowledge, health, money and almost every little of you whatever these things are you have two choices either to accept it or to change it? Am I leading you to the bottom of this?„ I want you to realized that accepting a chance for a job is also requiring you to accept what it is or change yourself to be better. If this new job taking you to a lower grade version of yourself remember this lesson 2.3 of Mimi the serenity prayer. Just the same principle either accept it or change it.
Lesson 2.5: ” Hi mistakes and hello to right and just”
- Committing mistakes is okay as well the company will not expect you to get the job rightly the way it was handled by the person you have replaced. I am trying to say that even well experienced people also get errors, mistakes, dis-approvals and rejections so do not feel mad or sorry for yourself and give up you just have to give it at your best on the next shot.One day you will be proud of sharing your errors and how well you have put yourself on hard work that pays it off :)
I will certainly put this on record towards my new job and which it will be on the future. This very random of me sorry guys hopefully this will also remind you of things as you take a brave step of yours and maybe tomorrow you will look back at it and so thankful of this very brave step.
touching your heart,